Short? Fat? Here’s Why You Can Still Get Girls…

Short? Fat? Here’s Why You Can Still Get Girls…

Hi, guys. Sky here from Charm Formula. Today, we’re talking about the
“Napoleon Complex and you.” Firstly, this is a bit of a misnomer because
actually Napoleon was kind of above average in height at that time in
history. There was a rumor that was founded about his enemies in order
to make him seen like an angry little man, then that turned into this
whole thing. Short Man’s Syndrome and the Napoleon Complex are just the
names of things that we give to people who have ego issues about their
height. However, it’s no different to having a big nose or massive ears,
being fat or having some kind of physical attribute that you cannot
really hide. Don’t have insecurities about the way we look, right? And
these insecurities manifest themselves in, you know, these ego problems
like the Napoleon Complex. The key is to deal with all of these ego
issues. What you think about yourself and your ego issues are reflected
in your body language. And since women are so unbelievably good at
reading body language, it is almost as if you are carrying this massive
neon sign above your head saying, “I have this problem, me, me, me.” So,
this is broadcasting all your problems like that. It makes it very easy
for women to see who has what problem and stay away from guys that have
issues. Your ego is an outward representation of what you think about
yourself. If you’re fat and you hate being fat, you display this by
wearing baggy clothes and being, you know, crazy shy and getting
aggressive with people when they’re teasing you. There are so many
different ways that we react negatively, because of the thing, you know,
the ego issues that we have. I know this because I used to be 165 kg.
Now, to put that into perspective for you guys, because, you know, your
camera adds on a couple of pounds. I actually weigh 98 kg as of this
moment. That’s a lot of weight to loss. I mean, I used — I would not
have been able to fit into this chair that I’m sitting in right now. Oh,
yeah, my fat would have been kind of touching the edges of the sides of
this chair. But before I was really able to deal with my weight problem,
and with diet and exercise, I have to deal with the cause or the reasons
why I was, you know, eating like a crazy person in the first place. And
this comes down to these inner ego problems. Essentially what ego is —
is like childhood trauma or problems that you’ve faced, you know,
throughout your life. And what we do is we protect ourselves by building
all of these protection mechanisms. We shield ourselves from the outside
world. We try to protect the areas where we feel sensitive. So, the
bigger the problem, the more defenses that problem has. Now, because
every guy has different problems like guys of, you know, there are guys
have big noses, there are guys have big ears, we got fat guys, there are
short guys, there’s guys all kinds of issues. But the thing is there is
no magic pill to fix all of them. Even fat guys, if you have two fat
guys, the core reason why they eat and why they’re putting all of those
weight and staying fat has not got to do with the same reason. So, one
guy might be doing it to protect himself like he literally feels like
eating builds this barrier, the shield away from him. And other guy
might eat in order to run away from his problems like he will run away
and go to a restaurant or go eat like bad food for him, because he’s
trying to run away from other people. The cause of these things is
always different. So, there isn’t a magic pill that you can just swallow
that will resolve all of your problems. So, these defenses that we build
up is like a labyrinth or a minefield of stuff that, you know, makes you
very sensitive and react to other people. So, I’ll use my — my own
case. So, when I was fat and people used to give me a hard time at work,
you know, in my lunch break, I would take an extra long lunch break,
I’ll be like fuck those guys. And then I go down to the pizza potter.
And I would sit down with a huge pizza and I will just — just eat that
pizza like I would enjoy it so much. I will basically run to the —
these are probably comfort, because these guys were making me feel
uncomfortable. So, that was my personal journey. But in order to get
there and to figure out what was the root cause of that, took ages, took
years for me to figure out what that was. The great thing is that if you
have somebody who knows how to get to those problem areas, it actually
doesn’t take as long as you think. So, we’re offering one-on-one Skype
consultations with you guys to be able to get through these ego issues
and to sort of navigate this minefield of all these protections that
people put up. So, we’re offering one-on-one Skype calls for you guys,
so that we can get to the root of your problems, and we can dig out all
the stuff. Whereby taking down this massive broadcast of body language
that you have, this neon sign, we get to take that down, and we get to
replace it with something that’s more positive and that women find more
attractive. If this interests you guys at all, please check out the
information below, and we’ll get in touch with you to let you know when
we can have our one-on-one Skype session. All right guys, stay awesome,
chow.

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